LIfe and Relationship

The toughest thing in this world is to maintain Relationship,its purely according to me. Must think once or twice before talking.Must be open to hear what ever comments we get.
Esp after marriage its better sometimes be quiet than to open the mouth then to get into Trap. Whether we said or not it will keep on rounding us till the end. We cannot judge a person within an Hour it take a life time to build relationship. Hope in future what ever relationship I am maintaining ,or getting new one will get improvised the way I look at the other end.
As Said By Mahtria" It is not the question of  whose mistake. It is the question of whose life .So take responsibility for your life."

Nice words

LIfe

Yes Everyday is a New Day.After 32 years Experienced. What we give it will come back to us,A SMILE, Love everything what we give will come back to us. Every morning feeling that day only I was born thanks for making me slowly forgetting the PAST of mine and Others.
Kids making me to learn much patience,love everything.
I am learning from them. Thank to all those who are allways with me in every moment.
Thank you GOD.
Thanks for the wonderful words by MAHTRIA.
Accept the Unchangeable
Change the Changeable
REmove Yourself from Unacceptable
 

WHO I AM

I always have a thought."WHO I AM" Many times I feel why I have Come to this world. What is the purpose. Whether I am doing GOOD in my roles as a "Daughter,Wife,Daughter in law,Sister,Grand daughter" and of course AS A MOTHER. Lot of questions ,trying to find out Answer. First I must Know what purpose I have come to this world. Even did many mistakes Have a wonderful life. Must know about the SELF.True Self. How it is possible.Crossing my fingers and Waiting for Answer.............

Relationship and Communication........
After a very long time posting a Post,its because of time,delivery babies etc.Thought to to post so that mind will get cleared from all thoughts. A lot of changes in a year after returning to Pune.Dad not able to move with his own son,What to tell whether it is a communication gap between a 35 yrs and 3 yrs or the lack of communication between FATHER and MOTHER. Children immitate their parents.My boy immitating his DAD.Nice.
A lot of mistakes I have done in my life.GOD ,lovable FAMILY was with me to overome all those.Now in my hands TWO litlle beautiful; adorable gifts in my HAND ONE BOY and ONE GIRL. SO gifted. NOw I am developing time to time patiene to handle both. I am also tryingh at maximum silence with Mr . Lets see

Sometimes I feel why RELATIONSHIP are created in this world. To understand others and mov ewith them acording to their way of living. SOmetimes I feel if I dont have system What I will do .NOthing just sit Meditate. No mobile,fine no messages no talks. No outside world happenings
Nice ........
Praying to GOD to give more strengths to make me stronger in POSITIVE THOUGHTS,more stronger in patience

Two days One week went fast after s great storm.I love my husband and family a lot GOD has to help me.PLs GOD help me

Silence

Enjoying the Silence in morning evening and all times.A thoughtless mind is so calm.........Peaceful and happy........
Praying to GOD that it continues...........Daily Chanting list of things I must not do..........

Enlightment

Last week after a long time again had a bad time.It was again after a year.........Same condition happened to me.But this time no on ewas there to help me my parents grandma no one.Th eonly person who helped me is me myself.For many years may be dont know from Childhood...I stared at others both men and women.......Stared at Windows of other houses ,listened to other talks...........................
Dont know how I developed the habbit..........
God is great .Even I did this much mistake GOD has given me wonderful family parents ,Husband and kid.Now I practice silence.My life is example to the world.........To all people...........I know if any one comes to the house normally people will be happy.If I go to any plae they wont like it.
Now I realise myself.I have wasted 30 solid years without knowing me...........Many times got help from others and just left them then and there.Now I feel guilty...
On ething is sure if we say to ourself what we have to do and must not do to ourself we an overcome proble.There are lot of things in the life I have wasted it by spending in unwanted things.Thinking about others etc.......
I am popular in World now..........PLs My advice to all is pls love yourself.There is a beautiful you in you......
Nothing much to say........Dont know how my future will be whether all will be scared o fme.........Whether this Society will acept me............
I am praying to god the list of things that I must not do......................Sorry to all those people whom I have hurted........GOD is EVERY WHERE so only got punishment now itself